By Cindy Adams

One man, fortunate enough to live life between two continents and be a beloved member of three families – that's a rare and wonderful situation. That man is Leteane Montasi.

Leteane was born in Lesotho, a mountainous country surrounded by South Africa. His early life was marked by severe malnourishment and constant fractures due to a genetic disorder called Brittle Bone Disease. By age 13, he weighed just 20 pounds, and the subsequent cognitive challenges affected his speech. His legs were twisted from multiple breaks that were not surgically repaired. Leteane’s father died when he was a baby, and with his mother's health failing, the rest of Leteane's family feared he wouldn't survive long. But Leteane defied all expectations.

Now 53, he radiates warmth and joy. He is inquisitive and loves a good joke. His competitive spirit shines through in board games (where he admits to occasional cheating), and his distinctive Lesotho accent and infectious laugh charm everyone he meets.

Two continents became Leteane's home after Bob Edgar, an American writer, teacher and researcher doing work in Lesotho, spotted him playing blissfully in his yard, despite his significant physical challenges. Bob was drawn to him and wanted to help. His first gift of a wheelchair evolved into a life-changing opportunity. Before long, Bob became like an extended member of Leteane's family and eventually conversations included opportunities for better medical care and education in America. Leteane's mother knew Bob's heart for her son, and she expressed that Leteane was "at home" with him. She made a selfless decision, born out of deep and unconditional love, to let Leteane leave with Bob. She wanted her teenage son to have access to resources in America.

Leteane flourished in the United States. He gained confidence and independence through special education and proper medical treatment, even securing a job to help support his family back home. He proudly became a U.S. citizen in 2004, while maintaining deep connections in Lesotho through regular visits with Bob. In South Africa, he met towering figures like Nelson Mandela. In America, he found joy in creating art and exploring food and music. There is a natural balance of beauty, opportunity, and relationships in both of his homes.

In addition to two continents, three families now shape Leteane's world: his biological family in Lesotho; his adopted family through Bob; and his newest family at enCircle’s Group Home in Arlington, Virginia. He moved into the Group Home with two other housemates and several caring staff members three months ago. They've celebrated holidays together and Bob is, again, like extended family.

"It is a gift to be around Leteane. He is a special part of our family here," said Carolyne Namussi, enCircle's Northern Virginia Family Care Manager. "He is so welcoming, and his humor makes our house a fun place."

For years, Bob was concerned about Leteane's health. Now, he is mindful of his own as he continues to make a way for this one guy who stole his heart so many years ago. It was decades ago when he said he "wanted everything for Leteane," and his pledge to care for him has proven inexhaustible.

"He’s a wonderful guy," said Leteane. "He knows me, and he loves me,"

As for his third family at enCircle’s Group Home, he says, "We take care of each other. I like everyone here. It’s a good place."

One man, two continents, three families – and a lifetime of love that knows no bounds.

Learn more about enCircle's Disability Services here.