By Cindy Adams

With some slight modifications, their small apartment is ready to receive a child. Not a biological child, but still a child in need of care – a child that Audrey and Izan Palau have been wanting to welcome for quite some time – a child who has made a frightening and dangerous journey for a better life.

This child is in enCircle’s Transitional Foster Care program.

She arrived at three in the morning, understandably tired, scared and tearful. But the warm greeting, private space and comfortable bed helped provide a sense of peace.

"This eleven-year-old little girl was separated from her aunt at the border, so she was completely alone in a foreign place. It’s heartbreaking," Audrey said.

Audrey learned of the opportunity to host children on a short-term basis when she worked in enCircle’s Transitional Foster Care program. She is now a high school teacher but remains connected to the program in a new way that beautifully suits her.

"We figured we have a safe and loving home, so why not," Audrey said.

A simple, yet confident, statement for a recently married young couple. While not parents themselves fostering offers them invaluable practice and cultivates a profound sense of responsibility. This experience enables Audrey and Izan to embrace the mindset and actions of parenthood, shaping their outlook on their own future. Central to their commitment is ensuring that every child under their care is nurtured with love and respect.

"Last night, the three of us were eating dinner together and it just brightened our home," Audrey said. "It’s simple things like that. We are excited to see how this experience changes us."

It has already changed the frightened little girl who first arrived at their door, only a few short days ago. "She has opened up a lot and says she feels comfortable and safe at her new school," Audrey said, smiling brightly. "She is a very, very sweet and smart girl."

For those considering transitional foster care, Audrey recommends setting realistic expectations, being patient with the process and not letting language barriers get in the way.

"Actions speak louder than words," she said. "You will find a way to communicate. All you really have to do is show them kindness."

Audrey said they would consider long-term foster care and adoption in the future, so this is a nice place to start. As for their first experience with a transitional foster child, Audrey describes it as heartwarming.

"For us, it’s a blessing," Audrey said. "And we hope it’s the same for these children."

No doubt it is, because it's hard to beat love, respect and kindess when you're just getting started.